Declaring 2017 to be the Year of the Woman, I googled “Men doing good things for women” to get examples of equality and understanding.
Instead, the first page offered topics like “10 things men LOVE women to do during hot sex” and “8 things men wished women knew about sex.”
This only re-emphasizes how men seem to only relate to women on a sexual basis. Not as humans, but as toys. Maybe this explains the recent abhorrent behavior that includes efforts to shut down Planned Parenthood clinics, a woman’s right to abortion or contraception being hindered, police departments destroying untested rape kits and the fact that a misogynistic, pussy-grabbing caveman is the leader of our country.
Women are furious. Don’t blame our hormones. Blame a society that continues to devalue our talents and abilities. We’re sad. Not because it’s “That time of the month” but because it’s heartbreaking to see inequality and sexism continue in another generation of young people.
We’ve focused on raising our daughters to be brave and bold like our sons, but we need to raise our sons to be empathetic and kind like our daughters. We need our sons and grandsons to understand that respecting women goes far beyond opening doors, it’s about being seen and treated as equals.
Female celebrities are embracing the cause:
- After President-Elect Trump’s “Nasty woman” comment to Hillary Clinton during a debate, Samantha Bee made “Nasty Woman” a rallying cry–and a super-cool T-shirt.
- Jennifer Aniston, firing back at tabloid news agencies, explained she doesn’t need a husband and children to be complete.
- Amy Schumer shut down the haters when it was announced she would be in the new Barbie movie.
“We need to laugh at the haters and sympathize with them. They can scream as loud as they want. We can’t hear them because we are getting shit done. I am proud to lead by example.”–Amy Schumer
- Olympic Gold Medalist Simone Biles stated, “I’m not the next Usain Bolt or Michael Phelps. I’m the first Simone Biles.”
- In her heartbreaking concession speech, Hillary Clinton said, “To all the little girls watching…never doubt that you are valuable and powerful and deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world.”
- And Michelle Obama, one of the country’s strongest leaders, stated, “No country can ever truly flourish if it stifles the potential of its women and deprives itself of the contributions of half of its citizens.”
This Saturday, thousands of women around the country will march in conjunction with The Women’s March on Washington. They march to send a message to the new president that women’s rights are human rights. They march to let the world know that we are rising and men need to stop holding us down out of fear we’ll fly higher than they ever imagined. What could we accomplish if men actually encouraged our flight?
“America is still a great country and it is still worth fighting for. . . And if Ms. Rodham’s not in the White House that’s okay — one of those girls is going to be. We still have millions of Nasty Women who aren’t going away, and as long as women over 25 are still allowed on television, I’ll be here, cheering them on.”–Samantha Bee
I recall those kinds of magazine articles in “Cosmopolitan” years ago and seeing that the articles would repeat, canceled my subscription. This was after the “sexual revolution” had begun, allowing women the “idea” of sexual freedom, with a focus upon female orgasm. (I am not saying it was altogether a bad time period and I was careful, but later realized the men were really “experiencing freedom”, due to this). I have seen that since, things turned around again on women, having given the conflicted message of learning about their bodies and expressing themselves or being thought of as a ______. Always the double-standard.. (and we thought we were “free”). Over the years, I have observed topics on covers of magazines, seeing that they were the same, recycled articles. Ho-hum.
It disturbs me how at this late stage, we have still not progressed very far. Perish the thought that women will refer to equality or speak out, having seen men derisively refer to women being feminists. A few years back, a Documentary surfaced, “MissRepresentation” with examples of sexism, etc., and how it is still so present. Another documentary, “The Invisible War” deals with how common rape has been in the Military, with countless cases that go unreported, due to retaliation, lack of regard for women or empathy. Both films are eye-opening and stuck with me.
With the current political disaster, which I have been deeply disturbed by, as many others are, I am shocked at how this occurred and the awareness of those who are in support of this excuse of a “human”, possibly being a leader. I have hopes that the nightmare will soon end. And we can only think how great if could have been, having otherwise had the expected election outcome.
The good thing is knowing how many in this country are standing up and speaking out, knowing that every aspect of this has been wrong. I am grateful to know that the majority of women and men are rational and will not stand for this debacle. There is still an element existing, having held women back and influenced boys to have a confused and negative view of women and equal rights for all, among other things. This is the mentality that has continued to cause problems and is what needs to be eradicated, once and for all. I hope I will see it in my lifetime.
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Great observations. I agree that the majority of women and men are rational, and are willing to make a difference. It’s not the rational people that concern me. 😦
Thanks for reading!